The 82 side what I remember Part 3
Tuesday, July 1, 2014
The 1982 side: What I remember part 2
I don’t remember hearing Moss Moss cause any controversy in the school in 1981 but it should have. It was clear where Dave Andersons’ heart was. We had a brighter newer kit (although it couldn't be maroon because we were NOT the official school side). If we were not having a game somewhere we would be watching rugby videos of the 5 Nations internationals at the music hall or even Andy guy’s house (if my memory serves me right).
The big worry for us fourth formers on the side were the rapidly approaching national exams. Rugby seasons also happened to be the season for the mock exams which usually ended up making a mockery of many. I don’t know what the other guys did but I woke up by 4 am to get in some extra work towards my exams. It must have been much easier because we were so physically fit and besides it was a small price to pay for rugby.
To be honest few of us saw this as a build up to 1982. We were just having fun playing, talking and living the game we all loved so much.
Why were there so many Kirk guys in Moss Moss and ultimately in the 1982 side? I have seen the question asked again and again in many threads and here is my controversial personal opinion which I am sure many may not agree with. I think it had something to do with 1977 when there was a terrifying head of house in Kirk and a reign of terror that has remained legend for years. Surviving that year in Kirk as a first former was quite something from the stories I heard then and in fact the real horror stories I have read in some threads right here in Facebook. Indeed those stories made going thru Lanet for 6 months military boot camp and training look like a walk in the park in comparison. I kid you not. That tradition was carried on for many years after 1977 albeit in a lesser degree but Kirk was always a feared house, if you know what I mean.
Rugby has to do with being tough and fearless, your size is not very relevant. Being tough means you can take a knock or two that others would cringe even thinking about. It means that you do not hesitate going for a loose ball even if the other guy is much bigger and more menacing than you are. Without this basic trait even the best technical advise and skill will be useless on the pitch. I saw this clearly in the career of one of the Mean Maroon and Kenyan rugby all-time greats fly half Dave Madara. In ’79 I feared for him when Lenana faced the burly Armed Forces. I told myself that there was no way he would take the hard knocks. I was wrong I watched Madara play for many years after that and being a fly half there would always be those towering wing forwards and back row guys out to hurt this fly half who was doing them so much damage. After all it is a man’s game. He would take the knocks and get up like nothing happened. Only once did he not get up and that was a special case. It was in a Kenya team game in Bulawayo against the top rugby province (Matebeland??) in Zimbabwe. Two hefty, heavily built guys who would make Arnold Schwarzenegger look small sandwiched him between themselves with force. Madara was carried off in a stretcher, unconscious. But a few weeks later he was back on the rugby pitch.
Now the guys who were a year ahead of me were some of the toughest guys I have seen on a rugby pitch and I believe that is why they made up most of the team and played with distinction too. Let’s hear what you guys have to say about that, am keeping an open mind on this.
There are many ways of getting this toughness which may not have been clear at the time but there is a lot you can see looking back at stuff that happened many years ago. My personal story was that I used the rugby pitch to get “revenge” against bullies in the house. One guy in particular (who also played full back) had a tendency of using me as his personal punching bag. Days after I learnt the basics of rugby we were in a house practice and he came charging. I remembered that we had been told that you simply take the man low and hard and no matter how big he was he would come down. I did just that and he landed so heavily that he pointed at me threateningly; “you!” People laughed and he never came charging carelessly at me again. His threats and those of other less skilled bullies did not stop me. Many of them would hurriedly pass the ball when they saw me. I have to buy this guy a crate of beer at the very least next time I meet him because I would never have developed my reputation for crash tackles without his “help.”
Every member of the 1982 side has his own personal story of how they developed their toughness and I can assure you that each and everybody on that side was much tougher than they look on that photo and this had to be the basis and foundation of such a great side. Indeed all rugby players from Lenana over the decades (and I have had the pleasure of meeting many who were there even before my time) were extremely tough guys and ultimately they have always played their rugby differently and done their things differently. More so when you compare them to another less tough boy’s school that we all know pretty well. My two cents!
The '82 side; what I remember Part 1
Who was greater 1982 rugby champs or 1977 Eric Shirley winners?
Fosdicks soccer game leads to painful caning
Tuesday, February 5, 2013
It all started on Fosdicks 1 in a house soccer match against Mumia. I can’t even remember who won that game but most of it consisted of personal clashes between myself and BJ’s twin bro Dave (RIP) in what turned out to be more of a rugby game than a soccer one. Now D (bless his soul) gained a reputation for bullying fellow first formers when we were still in first form and for some reason he did not like me. The truth is that nobody could dare challenge him because even if you managed to win the fight (which was unlikely) there was his twin bro, BJ always hanging around in the shadows who could easily come in and give you a proper beating. And so I always ignored his jeers. To make matters worse he was a known member of the herbalists’ society and in those days I naively feared members of that club because of all the stories I had heard about the super human strength they would gain and the crazy wildness they were capable of.
I guess the whole effect of this was that D always saw me as easy prey.
That soccer match was refereed by Mr Ngure (not sure, you guys will correct me if I am wrong but he taught economics and had a very distinct Kikuyu accent). Naturally he saw what was going on and awarded numerous fouls going both ways during that stormy game.
When the game ended D continued taunting me relentlessly. I ignored him and started walking back to the house. Some of the guys around started laughing as they watched this drama with interest. He said a lot of things which I ignored. He kept talking and then suddenly touched a raw nerve deep inside me. He said something about my late mother. You guys who have been following this know the history and I probably had a lot of pent up emotions about this subject in particular.
The next thing that happened was that I found myself on top of D pinning him to the ground. I saw nothing but red. That scuffle could not have lasted a minute and some level headed guys managed to pull us apart. Knowing what I know now I dread the kind of damage that D would have managed to inflict on me, knowing pressure points in the body and all from his karate background. But I guess my advantage is that I took him totally by surprise.
Mr Ngure came over and asked what was happening. Somebody told him and he grabbed both D and I by the hand and took us to the Deputy headmaster. I don’t remember whether it was at his house in the school or he had been reffing another soccer game. I guess I can’t remember because I was still in a very emotional state. But what I remember is that we were given an appointment to see Okech the next day in his office on the upper floor of the crash hall.
As we waited for him outside his office with D, I had plenty of regrets over the incident. This was just not me. What the heck had come over me? But at least I could see that one good thing had come out of it. D now had respect for me. But I had gained it at great cost.
“You boysh[sic] have been fighting.” Okech said looking at us sternly. “Why were you fighting?”
I didn’t know what to say and neither did D. He was caned first. He braced himself after the first one but the second was too much and he stood up holding his back side. I stared in apprehension knowing I was next. When it was my turn I couldn’t even take the first one.
“Bend over Kavila, I am not finished.”
By the time he was done with the three. The searing pain had reached the top of my head and I felt like my backside was on fire. I had never been caned like that in my entire life.
“If I see you here again, you will have to go home.” Were Okech’s parting words.
Secretly I had one very huge regret over this incident. In 1980 I had already started plotting to be head of school one day. According to me I had now tainted my clean record irreversibly and was out of the running. It haunted me for many days and forced me to look deep into myself wondering what the heck had come over me to lose my head in such a reckless manner. I couldn’t stop kicking myself for the rest of that third term for this huge blunder I had made. To me even the respect and the fact that D now left me alone was no consolation.

